@bernard I see what you're saying.
To clarify, this pharmacy manager is a borderline sociopath.
I won't go into the saga of the days long altercation we had, but, trust me, all of it was on her for a lack of professionalism.
And one day, she had to be dressed down. Her behavior was that egregious.
One the flip side, she's a consummate professional.
Some people have a a Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde personality. Some people just do.
I was actually just wanting professionalism from her today. The "human connection" was really a pleasant surprise given our history.
I figured out key with her. Operate on her good side ,and the working relationship runs like clockwork.
My point was more that there's not any "human connection" or warmth anywhere, for all intents and purposes.
99% of human transactions are based on the exchange of money (how could it be otherwise?).
That kind of freaks me out.
It just a personal idiosyncrasy of mine.
I'm "reverse engineering" the problem as quickly as I can accomplish it.
I've lived alone for 4 months out of 59 years..
I'm not asking anyone to feel sorry for me (certainly not) but I had a best friend in life for 38 years.
Until I didn't.
I'm adjusting. It's a steep learning curve
You'd love (sarcasm) the famous " diva persona" of the Southern woman who talks to you as if ice wouldn't melt in her mouth why she eviscerates you to your face.
Such women exist. Ask me how I know.
Oh, I did tell someone off today, come to think about it.
It was my Lyft driver. Both of the rear seat belts were broken.
I told him people need seatbelts. I told him to have his seatbelts fixed immediately. I told him if he can afford a camera for his own protection he could afford to fix his seatbelts.
Expecting people to ride without seatbelts? What?
I was a total ***** from the time I got into the car until I got out of it without closing the door behind me.
He claimed he didn't know. He offered to stop the car and inspect.
I said just take me where I need to go and get your seatbelts fixed.
He got out of the car at CVS and said he was going to inspect his seatbelts.
I ignored him, opened the car door, and walked into the store.
But he deserved it, in spades, taking people's money and knowingly endangering their lives.
I didn't give him a review. He was off my timeline the spit second I was out his car.