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  • Favourite house style?

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    Cautionary tale/ PSA. My father [with my mother's sweat equity and creativity, and my child labor (I'm sorry but making your five year old fill five gallon buckets with rocks for months didn't happen for long after '73), his friends in other trades (other than electrical work), other contractors, and suppliers, took an upstate NY summer shack, demolished it, and built my parents' mid-century modern dream house. It was mid-century modern down to its flat roof. Two peaked roofs with attic space were added years later. Well, the lifted the house with hydraulics at some point and set it down on its new concrete block foundation. To give you a picture the side of the basement to left of the bottom stairs was "the bones" of an apartment with roughed-in plumbing. My brother and sister would each use this space as a bedroom many years later but it was never turned into an apartment (I'm getting to why). The east half to the right of where the basement stairs were was a two car garage. This is the problem they encountered and it had a very negative effect. The land beneath the front line of the house (and the concrete wall constructed) reached from the front line down to the basement floor. Now imagine (because it's true) the grading of the land went from this line forming the line at the house's floor at the front door, angled downward an entire story, on both sides of the house, until the slope ended at the level of the basement floor. Well, the lot on the opposite side of the road was a hill with a house set on a cleared off piece of land. Unfortunately, nobody knew knew, guess, was told, was able to predict, or otherwise had the knowledge to realize that water was flowing downward in elevation, underground, and hitting the concrete block front wall. It was always damp and never able to be mitigated effectively. The original flat roof didn't help. They never help. The roof never resulted in the house leaking or damage in the walls, luckily. It just meant that rain removal with a proper gutter system and snow removal vis a vis roof maintenance caused my parents unnecessary stress. Finally, there was a period of time when a leak developed between the concrete front door slab and the basement. This was fixed. So, that's my PSA. You should consider the movement of water below the ground. My parents' basement eventually exploded in mold. The smell became so bad that it hit you the minute you opened the door to basement. Contractors working for my father's estate mitigated this damage and cleared out his hoarding mess (I have posted in other threads that he was a hoarder). The quality of life this situation took away from everyone but me (because of timing), the probability that my family had mold poisoning, and the large amount of money required to fix these issues before the house could be sold during the probate process, form a large and unfortunate, to be honest, part of my memories. At least the sale price didn't suffer at all. It's remarkable what you can accomplish with the right amount of money. I don't know why my father was a hoarder. I remember countless summers when my mother and I would rent various sized dumpsters and try to help him. He would take molded pieces of insulation that had been buried in the ground from the dumpster and say, "I might need this some day." It was like Sisyphus moving a stone boulder up a hill and never being able to reach the top.
  • Sharing the wealth

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  • I’m all for tracking your fitness but…

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    Fitness gadget makers haven't figure out how to distinguish human gaits from the usual house pet gaits?
  • What are they teaching in schools?

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    @Mik said: Good news on his progress and that his mental acuity is pretty darn good. It’s a marathon. How are you holding up? I’m always concerned with the caregivers. Thanks for thinking of me! I'm doing well. Everything is manageable at this point. Mr wtg is getting stronger so helping him transfer between his wheelchair and recliner is less taxing physically than it was. Plus I'm in better shape! It also helps that I'm a planner and have previous experience with caregiving. I just figure out how to play the cards we've been dealt. It would be much harder if we still had a dog or had other responsibilities. We met a man who was in acute rehab at the same time Mr wtg was there. The guy and his wife in their early 60s and both still working. Just bought a new house in January. I'm not sure she's prepared for what to do when he comes home. I also find it easier to deal with Mr wtg's physical limitations; taking care of my Mom who had dementia was much more challenging, emotionally at least. We've always been homebodies, so having to stay close to home a lot isn't that difficult. I plan a lot around his day rehab so I can do shopping and errands. And we have a couple of people who can come over and stay with him if I have to go out. The garden is my refuge. When things seem a bit overwhelming, I remember this: Link to video
  • You can have this in New Orleans for 1 million

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    The inside is like a labyrinth. No rhyme or reason. No privacy. The outside isn't great. The only good thing is the privacy and views from the top floors but they messed that up by connecting different bedrooms on different levels to the outside patio. Shouldn't the owner of a house like this have a private balcony?
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  • Bloomscrolling--what's in bloom where you are?

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    Last year MrsA and daughter#2 went to Amsterdam and now we have [image: 1778437159642-20260510_184730.jpg]
  • Laughter is the best medicine

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  • Canvas data breach

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    So Canvas is back online for many schools — but not mine! They are saying they won’t bring it back until they finish some third-party verification that it’s safe. I mean, that’s certainly the smart thing to do, but everything is in limbo in the meantime. Not only finals, but I’m teaching a summer session class, which starts on Tuesday and it’s all hilt in since Canvas…
  • Eat eggs!

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    There's a country in Asia that eats them fertilized, put into the ground, and left to rot. I would starve to death first.
  • Deed theft

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  • 8-12 days of 85 feels like 92 bliss!

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  • Bugscrolling - what's buzzing/chewing/biting in your neighborhood?

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    I have pulled the first tick off me already this spring. But I have a hunch that it may not be as bad this year for us, seeing how we did not have as much snow as usual, and we hovered around 0F for many days. Fingers crossed.
  • Towns rebel against data center projects

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    In Georgia… https://www.politico.com/news/2026/05/08/georgia-data-centers-water-00909988
  • Crowdfunding Spirit back to life?

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    That's nice.
  • Prediction of a super El Nino

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    Shout out to Tampa.
  • Continuing to redecorate Washington DC

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    Here we go again.
  • Tomato fraud

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    The thing with San Marzano tomatoes is not the variety but the location - the volcanic soils around Vesuvius. If they weren't grown there the designation is pretty meaningless. I use Cento San Marzano tomatoes regularly and find them a fine product. Many chefs agree. This lawsuit strikes me as just a competitor trying to tarnish the frontrunner.
  • Aqueous batteries

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    Could be great. What is the catch?