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    Daniel
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    How do we feel about "self-care"?

    I think it should be (and will be) expunged from English.

    A thought experiment- why isn't there the term "other-care"?

    No. There's direct care. Direct care is difficult, logistically complicated, often laborious work.

    I know. It was my mother's NYS job for 20 years to take care of full grown, actually old, TBH, adults, with the minds of developmentally disabled children.

    Self-care. I think it should (and will).go back to taking care of oneself.

    'But as they said in one of the later Rocky movies, "Time...it's undefeated.".-- Mik

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      How do we feel about "self-care"?

      I think it should be (and will be) expunged from English.

      A thought experiment- why isn't there the term "other-care"?

      No. There's direct care. Direct care is difficult, logistically complicated, often laborious work.

      I know. It was my mother's NYS job for 20 years to take care of full grown, actually old, TBH, adults, with the minds of developmentally disabled children.

      Self-care. I think it should (and will).go back to taking care of oneself.

      ShiroKuroS
      ShiroKuroS
      ShiroKuro
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      @Daniel said:

      "self-care"

      i dislike this expression as well.... I think the concept is ok, but the way it's used is grating... And I read a critique a while pointing out that often, what's recommended as self-care is often not that great for the person...

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        I think of it as a frivolous idea, even though AI says there are "5 Pillars'' involved so clearly there are people who take it seriously (I stopped reading after "5 pillars").

        'But as they said in one of the later Rocky movies, "Time...it's undefeated.".-- Mik

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          Bernard
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          I'm fine with self care. Self care means preparing comfort food when you need it. It means saying "no" when necessary Distancing oneself from toxic people. Taking a break from the news when it gets too overwhelming. Shutting off devices. Pampering oneself. Resting when necessary. And on and on and on.

          That's how I define it anyway.

          The industrial revolution cheapened everything.

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            I'm fine with self care. Self care means preparing comfort food when you need it. It means saying "no" when necessary Distancing oneself from toxic people. Taking a break from the news when it gets too overwhelming. Shutting off devices. Pampering oneself. Resting when necessary. And on and on and on.

            That's how I define it anyway.

            ShiroKuroS
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            ShiroKuro
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            @Bernard yep, I don't have a problem with those things.

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              Daniel
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              @bernard I do a routine of things that are thebself care you're saying. And yes I avoid toxic people. I didn't used to have toxic people in my life. It took a lot of inner conflict and struggle and frankly financial resource but I achieved it.

              'But as they said in one of the later Rocky movies, "Time...it's undefeated.".-- Mik

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                “Lived” experience.

                Is there any other fucking kind of experience???

                Anyone have imagined experience???

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                  “Lived” experience.

                  Is there any other fucking kind of experience???

                  Anyone have imagined experience???

                  ShiroKuroS
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                  @jon-nyc I feel like lived experience and self-care are similar, in that their origins are legit, but they’ve morphed with overuse and have become annoying buzzwords.

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                    “Lived” experience.

                    Is there any other fucking kind of experience???

                    Anyone have imagined experience???

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                    Daniel
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                    @jon-nyc said:

                    “Lived” experience.

                    Is there any other fucking kind of experience???

                    Anyone have imagined experience???

                    Yes, the redundancy is cloying.

                    'But as they said in one of the later Rocky movies, "Time...it's undefeated.".-- Mik

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                      @bernard I do a routine of things that are thebself care you're saying. And yes I avoid toxic people. I didn't used to have toxic people in my life. It took a lot of inner conflict and struggle and frankly financial resource but I achieved it.

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                      Daniel said:

                      @bernard I do a routine of things that are thebself care you're saying. And yes I avoid toxic people. I didn't used to have toxic people in my life. It took a lot of inner conflict and struggle and frankly financial resource but I achieved it.

                      Of course I meant to say"did have" toxic people in my life.

                      'But as they said in one of the later Rocky movies, "Time...it's undefeated.".-- Mik

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