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Feeling old yet?

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    Daniel
    wrote last edited by Daniel
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    Yes, it reminds me I feel old.

    I've had many such reminders lately.

    I had a trip and fall in the dark on concrete. I landed on my lower left rib cage with my hand protecting my head. I tore and pulverized muscle tissue from my left shoulder to where my ribcage ends. The palms of my hands are bruise. My left hand bend backward to a severe angle.

    I've been in pain for a week and counting. It's so wrong to realize that my almost uncanny ability to catch myself when I fall can only last for a finite number of times moving into the future.

    My trustee and I had what I'll call a difficult conversation on Saturday, all the result of the fact she created a needless drama that was mind boggling in the pointlessness of it.

    I did what I was asked to do when I was asked to do it. She refused to follow one note of explicit instructions (again, she asked for a list of explicit instructions containing agreed on information sought) the reason being she wanted to do it a different way.

    She didn't think to get a bank check and take care of it when she was at the bank on Saturday, and was remiss in not buying physical checks for the trust account, as it turned out.

    She then insisted on me giving her information I didn't have so she could use the bank's auto generating check feature.

    She told me she was not going out of her way for me again (it never happened in the first place), berated me about my situation (completely inappropriate), and accused me of metaphorically beating her ("I'm not your punching bag") in a way that was bizarre, not at all apt, and offensive.

    I had to run down some facts with her and tell her to keep her judgmentalism and accusations to herself in the future.

    I used nicer language but with the same meaning.

    She's 15 years younger than me; she has the time (apparently) and the energy to act this way.

    We agreed on "next steps" (if barely) but she can't be talking to me this way. It can't be "a thing."

    She'll know what it feels like to be 60 when she gets here. She's in for a rude awakening.

    'But as they said in one of the later Rocky movies, "Time...it's undefeated.".-- Mik

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      I like to think of it musical context of what is an oldie?

      The first Beatles album came out about 63 years ago.

      When you were listening to that first Beatles album ,what was an oldie that was 63 years old? Well, that’s about when John Philip Sousa wrote “the stars and stripes forever” and Scott Joplin wrote “the entertainer.” The biggest pop song hits were by Al Jolson..

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        jon-nyc
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        Sorry you’re going through that Daniel.

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          CHAS
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          Gee, thanks, jon. Just what I needed. 😰

          LOL

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            Sorry you’re going through that Daniel.

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            Daniel
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            @jon-nyc said:

            Sorry you’re going through that Daniel.

            Thanks, jon. She actually did get the the service for the new place today. It starts on Wednesday. I have to insure the breakers are turned off by Wednesday morning to prevent a power surge. The cashier's check was sent USPS tracking on Saturday to the buyer's agent. I have papers to sign. My car should arrive any day now from NY (the Bronx, lol). I bought it after seeing an ad at Cars.com. It was last driven in Montana but it's got only 24k miles, 1 owner, and clearly it was garaged. I don't have the car yet but it's insured. So it won't be long now.

            'But as they said in one of the later Rocky movies, "Time...it's undefeated.".-- Mik

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              Piano*Dad
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              When I was young, Igor Stravinsky and Dmitri Shostakovich were living composers. Rachmaninoff, Debussy, Prokofiev, and Ravel were "recent." In high school I was playing piano works by Barber, who was still around.

              I saw Arthur Rubinstein give a concert in Miami. He debuted with the Berlin Philharmonic in 1900.

              Crazy economist who likes to write about higher education.

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                jon-nyc
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                Damn you old.

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                  Piano*Dad
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                  I edited it and added more when you weren't looking ... 🙂

                  Crazy economist who likes to write about higher education.

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                    jon-nyc
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                    Wow. I saw Leon flesher’s last Carnegie hall concert. His first was when Germany still occupied France.

                    But that speaks to his age, not mine.

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                      I heard Rubinstein in concert too. With orchestra. Of course, I was a wee teen then.

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                        Bernard
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                        In 1970 I entered high school. Seventy years before that was the year 1900. As a freshman, thinking back to 1900 seemed incomprehensible. This year I'll be 70.

                        The industrial revolution cheapened everything.

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