One of the consequences of aging...
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...is that you keep losing lifelong friends.
Sad but true.
I don't know if anyone is interested, but I thought I'd share the link to the slideshow. @big_al , you might be interested in the wanderings of a fellow engineer. He had a PhD in mechanical engineering, was a PE, and worked on nuclear reactors when he was at Sargent and Lundy.
I'm glad you shared that slide show. My life and career shared some similarities to Wasi, although I've ended up retired not too far from where I was born; very different from his story.
Big Al
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It is true that most of us here are entering a phase where life will take more away from us than it gives us. I find that I need to try a bit harder to maintain social connections and work a lot more on health, but I think it is worth it. I hope I can continue. Most of all I hope to die before I have to be placed in a home, unable to do anything that resembles life to me.
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I share Mik's desire to die before having to live a life without a certain quality of life.
Also, I don't want to suffer any protracted, painful treatments regimes for diseases when doing that could only lead to death.
I need to regroup by myself in a healthier environment and with more resources before I will be able to make significantly better health decisions and take significantly better actions accordingly.
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It is true that most of us here are entering a phase where life will take more away from us than it gives us. I find that I need to try a bit harder to maintain social connections and work a lot more on health, but I think it is worth it. I hope I can continue. Most of all I hope to die before I have to be placed in a home, unable to do anything that resembles life to me.
It is true that most of us here are entering a phase where life will take more away from us than it gives us. I find that I need to try a bit harder to maintain social connections and work a lot more on health, but I think it is worth it. I hope I can continue. Most of all I hope to die before I have to be placed in a home, unable to do anything that resembles life to me.
I already have only a handful of living family members left and I'm close to none of them.
Correction: I'm close to one of them, my late aunt's cousin who's in her '80's and lives in Seattle.
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Sounds like Wasi was a great guy!
My condolences.
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Lost one lifelong friend in April and one last week. At a high school reunion in September a list of those that are gone was read. Did not hear my name.
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@andyd I'll take a good decade over a good one and a bad one. My medical power of attorney is complicated AF. I'm going to make sure it's know that I want DNR and no life support. I've had an interesting life. I have no plans to spend years suffering if there's no real point.
As far loss, lifelong friends, since I was 3, since I was in high school, since I was in college, have become estranged over the decades. There's one I'd like to find but haven't had any luck in years.
I have no family except a brother who is a narcissist from hell and has decided for the second time that we will be estranged since there's nothing I have that he can get from me.
I have a cousin who doesn't understand me. I'll put that diplomatically.
I have an aunt in her '80's whom I think the world of, and she's invited me to Seattle, but in will be a year or more before I'll be moved, settled, healed, and in a new rhythm managing my new responsibilities.
The grim reaper cut down almost my entire family without giving me much of a break. Such is life.
Well, we all know what our greatest poet said-- 'Better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all.'
Strangely, I want to be on my own. It's a new adventure.
though we have couple of older cousins and I have an older sister.
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