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  • Generation Jones

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    Well, the notably large generation born after WWII ended and the US focused on civilian life again, and especially building the economy, accumulated a vast amount of wealth, and this wealth is, or will be in the fullness of time, transfered to people and institutions. My father included me in his will, share and share alike, to my complete surprise, as I've said. My beloved sister died at 39, so this leaves my brother and me. I always just assumed, for various reasons, that he'd leave his estate to my brother. This is, in all modesty, a life changing amount of money, and such a blessing. My aunt (going in birth order) has a net worth I would conservatively estimate at over 3 million. She has this quirk (and she really does) in that she considers her own nuclear family, her first cousins, and her ancestors to be her family. My mother's children are viewed as only an extension of my mother, and we "died" along with my mother. She had no children. She was physically unable to for a reason I was never told. Her treatment of me (in life) isn't rational but, of course, people aren't always rational. Moreover, of course, she had a perfect right, the same as anyone else, to execute her will. My guess is that she will donate most of it to FSU and the rest to animal welfare groups. My uncle is the stereotypical (sorry) uncle people talk about when they talk about maybe they have a rich uncle without children who they hope (um, I know he's a real person, believe me) will leave them money (and I haven't spent a second let alone a minute hoping he would do any such thing, because I know him. He (not me) decided that we would be estranged for life after his mother died. I called the my father's house after my mother died (I knew my aunt and uncle were there), he answered the phone. I said, "My condolences on the death of your sister." and he said, "My condolences on the death of your mother." Then I asked him to put my aunt on the phone. Those are the last words we will speak to each other. I would estimate his net worth at between 5 and 10 million. Again, I don't care what he does with it. It's his right to do anything he wants. But he won't be leaving me a penny. That's for sure. I can't complain. I'm not complaining. On the contrary, I am very grateful to my father. I guess I'm in a contemplative mood sometimes and that this serves to anchor me, to keep my feet on the ground. I'm about to make a transition in my life that is a bigger transition than any I have made in 35 years, maybe a bigger transition than any I have made in the past. This is the part people around me don't understand (with notable exceptions): this is something I have to do alone, a series of decisions and actions I have to take. It's not something that anyone could do for me. It's not something that anyone could "give" me. As to generations, I am Gen. X. I know it. It doesn't offend me.
  • Ace the ping-pong player

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    Come on guys, that's pretty impressive. But I could take it
  • Real books FTW. At least for now.

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    @andyd Good point.
  • I may have to go back to Home Depot

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    My daughter gave me a couple boxes of North Spore mushrooms, can't remember which variety. They grew beautifully! You can also get them in a log form with spores embedded in the log, and then grow outdoors...a larger quantity.
  • Where old t-shirts go to die

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    @adagiom I'll check out your site! @mik @andyd This is where I got my two pair of identical shorts in different colors (navy and dark grey) and 3 t-shirts (white, grey, and navy). They cost a small fortune but they are perfection in every way at least for me. There's no way I could wear a Gildan or Hanes t-shirt to an HOA interview. I also have to hire and meet with a real estate attorney. I have to meet hire a buyer's agent and meet other real estate agents, and possibly owners. I have to buy a car. I will be presentable. My everyday clothes are ok but they wouldn't be up to the task. Mack Weldon | Elevated clothing to look and feel your best https://mackweldon.com/?utm_source=googlecpc&utm_medium=sem&utm_campaign=ne_google_search_brand_General_Exact_l_All&utm_term=aud-917271497972%3Akwd-361548274927_-_697807507327&utm_content=21236693702_-_160006504485&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21236693702&gclid=CjwKCAjw46HPBhAMEiwASZpLRLBrAR3YKqkxc41VqSzjtxArjeG9k2sPR824sXKjYodDN2reRlxTZRoCSW4QAvD_BwE
  • What are you reading (afterlife edition)?

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  • Anyone watching the Artemis II launch?

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    I'm keenly awaiting next year's trip. Makes the news worth watching
  • Tucker Carlson's Pauline Moment

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    Reported here, too-- Link to video Background is: he, in error, is operating under the assumption that China and Korea ? tested nuclear weapons, when they only tested weapons capable of delivering them; then he ordered (as yet not happened, planning stage) nuclear tests to be done on American soil. So, all things considered, when he asked for the nuclear codes, the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff (if I understood correctly) allegedly flat out said, "No."
  • What is a "sigma male" or "sigma female"?

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    I hear you.
  • Piano recording: jury prep

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    @Mark thank you!! I would love to hear your Chopin!!
  • Where our tax money goes

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    Some of our "Social protection" category is paid with dedicated taxes in trust funds. The % shown is abysmal, not withstanding. I'm surprised the "Defense" category is such a low %, when the defense budget was 1 trillion and was recently (during Trump II, year 1, passed and signed) raised to 1 1/2 trillion. I'm not sure why a 50% increase was deemed necessary. To add to this category, I believe but could be wrong that the budget for some or all of the intelligence agencies is kept secret. The politicians have a fainting couch on hand when it comes to domestic spending, but it seems the sky is the limit for debt creation vis a vis defense spending, including, of course, foreign wars, and decades of tax cuts.
  • Should you find yourself in the Tokyo area...

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    Looks great. After having to cancel trips to Japan in September and April we are going to Denmark, Oslo, and Stockholm in June.
  • Only 99F today

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    Tomorrow we hit 75. I'm going golfing in the afternoon.
  • Electrical Project

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    @Axtremus The early LED lamps were prone to “singing” when used with certain dimmers or dimmed down very low. Sometimes it could get pretty loud. The problem seems to have gone away with newer lamps. Or maybe not. Maybe they just sing very softly now and your hearing is sensitive enough to pick it up.
  • Should you find yourself in Tampa...

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  • Snotty Receptionist

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    True story. My Doc of eight years had a receptionist with a bigotry problem and she didn't hide it. Well, one day she was upset about something, and followed me into the examination room, as if that was her business. The RN (I've known the whole time) being above her, bosses her. She said, "Get out!" I looked right at her, and with the same tone and volume, said, "Get out!" She never messed with me after that.
  • One-upping the Pope

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    I haven't paid much attention to this American Pope to be honest. I'll find out more about him one day. The Pope, head of the Catholic Church, and secular head of state of Vatican City always interested me. The friction between HH and Trump doesn't surprise me. Is there anyone Trump gets along with who isn't a sycophant except Netanyahu who's in a category by himself?
  • Underestimate Persia at Your Own Risk

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    We've destroyed or better to say badly damaged UNESCO sites. Does UNESCO condemn these acts stemming from a war of aggression? No. UNESCO issues tepid statements about its "concern." UNESCO has, in effect, abandoned its remit. It's yet one more example of the troubles the West's institutions seem to be having these days. I knew this would happen. It happened in Iraq. Who knows how much more destruction of historically and culturally significant significant sites and objects will occur. Iran (It's Persia, actually-- "Iran" is a word the British made up) is a target rich environment. This happened in Gaza (Gaza City). The amount of damage of centuries old sites at an ancient crossroads of civilizations will take decades for historians to recount on paper only for some record to survive for the future.
  • How a retractable pen works

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    I finally figured out what I needed in a pen. Ballpoint, not gel, fine (.7?), black ink, not retractable, the cover fits on the top (to not get lost). I had to pay almost $4 for it. I have retractable colored gel pens. A basic set of colors. I got rid of the yellow because the ink was almost invisible. I got rid of the purple because I knew I wouldn't use it. I have orange, red, blue, and green. I have enough #2 pencils to last the rest of my life. I'm rotating two and keeping one sharp at all times. The weak link in my system is the fact that my pencil sharpener is plastic, little, and cheap. I'm getting bored of these colors. I'll add more at some point. I'll definitely buy a duplicate to my black pen even though it's refillable. All of my pens are Pentel brand. I recommend them. They are well made and ergonomic. The black one and the colored ones are different product lines as you'd expect but each pen has an indented rubber grip for your thumb and index finger. This collection was completed recently when I bought my black pen. I started off eight year ago buying boxes of Bic pens. They were uncomfortable to use. Sometimes they would write and sometimes the same pen wouldn't do anything but scratch holes in the paper.
  • Happy birthday to the forum

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    21! 21+2+7= 30 years this has been a hobby of mine.